What three lessons do you want your children to learn from you?
1. Everyone matters. No matter what messages you get about who is cool or worthwhile, you treat everyone with kindness and respect.
2. Actions have consequences. So does inaction. Figure out what you want to happen and then whether what you're doing will likely lead to it.
3. Sunscreen. But not until AFTER you put in your contacts. (This will be a Do As I Say, Not As I Do lesson since I never, ever, ever learn.)