Conversely, write about something that's kicking ass right now.
You know what's kicking ass right now? Marriage.
Marriage has turned out to be exactly what I hoped it would - a partnership that makes the rest of life better and easier. We have fun together and take care of each other. We're both compromisers by nature, which I think makes things a lot easier. We're not natural communicators, but we are learning.
These days, we're getting to eat dinner together every night. That's pretty great. We have our routines and our schtick and our Sunday night questions. (How did you feel loved this week? What does next week look like for you? How can I support you next week?) When we're in town we go to yoga together on Saturday mornings and when we're traveling, we play cards in airports.
Marriage has turned out to be a soft place to land and a home I never want to leave. And that? Kicks ass.